TIMESINDONESIA, JAKARTA – Parents mostly will think that they are superior and knows what the best for their kids. The worse thing is when they couldn’t take any of their kids opinion or couldn’t understand their kids good willing and take it as a bad thing.
So, what can we do to be a good supportive parents?
1. Let them explore their abilities
Every parent wants the best for their kids. But little did they know, they sometimes limited their space to explore their capabilities. Be there and support your kids to whatever they do, just remind them when they took the wrong thing and describe them about the positive and negative effect if they do a thing. And let them decide.
dua. Don’t yell at them
Yelling may be one of your way to let your anger out. But for your kids, your strong voice just like a tsunami for their ears. Your strong voice will tear them down and make them broken heart. And the worse is it will remains on their memory forever.
3. Give more of your time
Sometimes parents are drowned with their own activities and work. They forgot about their precious time playing with their kids. Parents, remember, time will never come back. You only have once chance to spend your precious time with them before they gone to puberty. So don’t waste it. (*)